New Year has always been special, fun filled. Last year I
enjoyed with my little girl, and at evening, went to the park and then for a
dinner with my better half. The year before was even more fun filled, as it was
associated with the house warming of my Uncle’s new house. We all cousins and
kins had a real good time.
This year too it was special, adventurous, more precisely
scary…
My New Year rituals include a temple visit, which I never
missed. Even while in Japan I remember having gone to some Zen temple. This
year too, I planned to go with my girl. Along with New Year it was also
Vaikuntha Ekadasi, a very auspicious day for Hindus. So By 10 15 my husband on
his way to office, gave a ring and told, it’s too crowded and the queue to
enter temple is stretched till the bus stop. I thought will go by eve. Had a sumptuous meal- Chicken Biriyani… Me and
Janvi enjoyed it with raita. Then had a short but sound nap… Around 4 30 she
woke up and woke me up too… We were hungry, ate some biscuits, had cakes and we
were thinking of what next and just kept watching cartoons. By 5 30, I told her
to get ready for temple… She was excited… I gave her a shorts and T shirt. She
was completely annoyed and started crying for her paavadai… (Full Skirt and
Blouse). I literally got irritated. I knew it will be difficult for me to walk
around with her in Skirts. But she was stubborn. I dressed up and tried
compromising with her. She didn’t give up. So I had to keep searching.
In the meantime my husband reached and he too put his hands
for the search. Finally we succeeded in finding her favorite set of clothes. So
by around 6, I and Janvi started for temple. We left for the temple in my
two-wheeler. She was all excited that as soon as I parked, she got down lifted
her skirts and started walking. We were surprised to see the crowd. I lifted
her and stood in the queue. In another 10-15 minutes, we could get inside the
temple. It was crowded inside. We moved along with the crowd. Somehow managed
to get the prasadam (holy offerings); both of us gave our offerings and came
out. She was happy to have received Tulsi leaves and sandal paste bindi. We
were about to go back home when she insisted me to go back to the temple and
sit for some time. She wanted to spread her flared skirts and enjoy. So we sat
for around 5-10 minutes and then we started back. Then came the toy seller who
aims at each and every kid coming to temple. She refused to come with me. She
wanted a Chotta Bheem balloon. I had only 20 ₹ with me and I was persuading her
to come along, she didn’t even bother to listen. I had to go with her and asked
the vendor to give me a balloon. She was somehow happy that she got a Red
Balloon.
We wore our slippers and instead of taking a roundabout of the
temple to come out, I took a quicker way, but had to cross some concrete
pillars. While crossing them I happened to look onto a biker and saw him
looking at me as well. I thought just a coincidence as it happens with
everyone. Janvi wanted to walk, so I held her hands and let her walk. She was
very careful with her steps. While going towards the parking, I saw the same
bikers having stopped a little forward. The one behind was speaking over phone
and the one in front was staring at me. I ignored thinking a New Year eve
teasing. We went over to our vehicle, Janvi occupied her position and then we
started. I was a little irritated to see that bikers over there. When I crossed
past them, they started their vehicle as well. Now I was literally scared and
confused. I thought I just felt someone is following me, after all I never
thought people will hurt a 3 year old kid. I put on my indicator to take the
right turn, fearing in case they increase their speed, I shouldn’t collide with
them. I increased my speed, but Janvi started shouting as her balloon was
flying off. So I reduced the speed to 20s… They were still following me with
the same speed; we drove for around 300 meters. I had to take a sharp left
turn, but this time however I didn’t want to put indicators. However, they
still followed me. I was very much scared by now. When there were few people on
the street and there was a speed breaker, I completely slowed down. I expected
that the bikers will overtake me and they did. I was so relieved and for a
moment I felt bad for having suspected them. They had gone away from my vicinity.
I maintained the same speed; the road too was not that
great. Finally when it reached somewhere near my flat I was completely shocked.
The particular street that leads to our apartment does not have a street light.
I was completely dark. The adjacent lane has street lights, but there were teak
trees (around 100 of them) in between the roads, that keep the other street
complete dark. The guys had stopped their vehicle perpendicular to the road,
blocking me from entering the road. I felt scared. Still I put the indicator
and took a turn. All of a sudden the guy sitting behind got down and tried
snatching my chain. I was expecting something of this kind. Somehow I managed
to hold my neck in one hands and cuddle Janvi with other hands, and we both
fell down. We had fell onto dried grass, and she fell onto me. Even when the
guy approached us, Janvi was crying very badly, even I was howling mad,
completely scared out of the situation. Hearing our cries, they guys sped away.
I was wearing a collared dress that prevented them from snatching the chain.
But I still have got the scratch marks on my neck and it’s painful. After getting
up, I asked Janvi if she was alright. She was completely fine, but was
wondering why they pushed us. My vehicle was still lying over the grass. I was
shivering and iced and didn’t have the slightest courage to lift the vehicle. I
had kept my phone in a small bag hooked to my vehicle. I quickly made a call to my husband and asked
him to come down. Before he came, a car with a political party’s flag came and
stopped nearby. I stepped back. I was completely scared. He told me not to get
scared, n asked what actually happened. He lifted my vehicle, told me he’s a
local in that area, and needn’t worry at all. I explained him what happened. He
waited for my husband to come. They spoke for some time, and he told that he
personally knows the ward councilor and he will speak to him about the street
light once again, which they have been requesting for a long time.
My husband asked me to take the vehicle home and told he
will come with Janvi. I didn’t have the courage to start the vehicle, but didn’t
have any other way, Janvi was completely shaken, and I dint want to walk alone
with in dark. I came in and told my security of what happened. I could see my
security from the spot, but he didn’t even realize that something happened,
because it was at most dark.
By the time my husband reached the apartment gate, our neighbor
with his family was there. He told him the happenings and they went to the
police station. After sometime they came back with a constable. She enquired on
what happened, if I can recognize them and if I noted the vehicle number. I didn’t
see any of those. However I can recognize him in any crowd. I was hurt that
bad.
Hundred thanks to neighbor Saumya who gave me and my
daughter company when my husband was away to the station. Janvi was quite OK
after she started playing with Tanvi. Usually we go for a happy New Year dinner
and that also had to be dropped because of these idiots. We planned to get
parcel for dinner. My husband asked my little girl if she wanted to accompany
him for getting it. She refused blankly saying, the uncle wearing green T shirt
will come to push me down. I won’t come. I was very much scared if she would be
affected badly. But she’s recovering. I couldn’t sleep properly yesterday. Was
in full fear, the scene of the guy trying to snatch away my chain was keeping
on flashing resisting me from sleeping.
I had bruises all over my legs, feet, knees, wrist,
shoulder, and scratches on neck. Even had few blood clots spread over thigh.
But my little angel didn’t even get a single scratch! I thank God for it.
I hope with time, I will get back to normal. And this was
also a caution to all other ladies over there who takes that path to grocery
shop and early morning walks over there. I was completely scared and my whole
body was terribly paining that I too had to compromise on my today’s morning
walk. I just thank God that he helped me out and prevented anything further bad
from happening. Many other things too could have taken place. They could have
attempted robbery even after I fell down. They could have kidnapped my daughter;
they could have raped or even killed me. One million thanks to God, the
almighty for keeping us safe and sound.